Can you evict your spouse?

If you’re getting divorced, but your ex still lives with you, is it possible to evict them from your home?

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Key Takeaways:

  • You likely can’t evict your spouse from your home, even if that home is your separate property.
  • Many spouses might have to file for divorce before they may exclude their spouse from their home.
  • In many states, you may remove your spouse from your home (before or during a divorce) by seeking a protection order, enforcing an existing marital agreement or filing for a temporary injunction in divorce court.
  • Court intervention is typically required to remove a spouse, often through temporary divorce orders, injunctions, or protection orders.
  • Property ownership doesn’t always give you exclusive occupancy rights, even if only one spouse’s name is on the deed.

When you decide to divorce your spouse, you may want to start living separately as soon as possible. We understand your desire for distance at the end of your marriage, but getting away may be tough when you and your spouse still share a home. If you were wondering how to evict your spouse during divorce proceedings, know that eviction may not be an option. You typically can’t evict your spouse from the home you share, but you might have other options for making sure you live apart while a divorce is pending.

Why can you not evict your spouse from your home?

Unlike a landlord-tenant relationship, marriage gives both spouses certain legal rights to live in the marital home. That’s why eviction laws don’t apply. Here are the key reasons:

  • Court intervention required: Removing a spouse isn’t something you can do unilaterally. It typically requires family court involvement, either through temporary orders during divorce or a final decision about property ownership once the divorce is complete.
  • Shared ownership rights: Most states presume that property acquired during marriage is jointly owned, even if only one spouse’s name is on the deed. Both spouses usually have the right to live there.

How can I get control of my home?

If you want full control of the home, the court first has to determine whether it’s marital property or separate property.

  • Marital property generally covers assets acquired during the marriage and is usually divided either equally (in community property states) or fairly (in equitable distribution states).
  • Separate property typically includes property acquired before the marriage, gifts, inheritances, or property specifically agreed to as separate in writing.

Once that determination is made, the court decides who gets the home. In some cases, one spouse keeps the home while the other receives assets of equal value. In others, the home may need to be sold and the proceeds divided.ance it to buy out the other spouse’s share of the equity. Or the court may order you to sell the home and divide the proceeds.

How to legally remove a spouse from your home

While you can’t use eviction laws, there are legal pathways to get your spouse out of the home, either during or after divorce proceedings. These usually require going through family court.

Legal options to remove your spouse:

  • Obtain temporary injunctions during divorce: While divorce is in process, you can request temporary orders that give you exclusive use of the home, require your spouse to maintain payments, and prevent them from damaging property until the final divorce decree.
  • Enforce premarital or postmarital agreements: If you and your spouse signed a fair, voluntary agreement defining who keeps the home, courts may enforce it during divorce. Agreements are most likely upheld if both spouses have lawyers and full financial disclosure.
  • Request protection orders: If there’s abuse or family violence, you can ask the court for a protection (restraining) order. This can require your spouse to leave the home immediately and may even obligate them to keep paying the mortgage or rent.

How a family law attorney can support you in the divorce process

While evicting your spouse may not be possible, legal channels exist to establish new living arrangements during your marriage. Although it’s not required, consulting a lawyer may help you find a solution that protects your rights and minimizes emotional and financial turmoil. 

An attorney in your area can identify what legal options you have to exclude your spouse from the home you share and advise you on how to achieve that goal. An attorney can also identify and obtain the evidence you may need to prove your right to remove your spouse from your home. And if civil communication between you and your spouse isn’t possible, an attorney can talk to your spouse or their attorney and negotiate the terms of any marital agreement you seek.

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Frequently asked questions

What can I do if my partner won’t leave my house?

If your spouse refuses to leave the family home, you may be able to legally oust them by filing for a protection order, asking for sole control of the shared home in a temporary order during divorce proceedings or asking the court to enforce provisions in a marital agreement you both already signed.

If a spouse leaves the home, can they come back?

Probably. In many states, you can’t exclude a spouse who leaves your home until you have a divorce decree, protection order, marital agreement or temporary order that says otherwise.

Does my husband still have to pay the mortgage if he leaves?

In many cases, yes. If you and your spouse have entered a premarital or postmarital agreement that requires them to leave when the marriage is ending, the agreement may require them to keep making mortgage or rent payments at least until you have a final divorce decree. And the terms of a temporary order or protection order may include the requirement that your spouse continue to make mortgage or rent payments, even if they aren’t allowed to live in the family home. Whether a spouse is required to keep paying the mortgage may depend on each party’s assets and income.

Can I kick my spouse out if I own the house?

Usually not. Even if your name is the only one on the deed, many states presume the home is marital property, meaning both spouses have the right to live there until a court decides otherwise.

What legal grounds exist for removing a spouse from the home?

Courts may order a spouse to leave if there’s a valid premarital/postmarital agreement, if the home is awarded to you during divorce, or if a protection order is granted in cases of abuse.

How long does the process take to legally remove a spouse?

It depends. Temporary orders during divorce can be issued fairly quickly, while final decisions about the home usually come at the end of the divorce process.

Can I change the locks if my spouse won’t leave?

No. Changing the locks on your own could violate your spouse’s legal rights and even backfire in court. You need a court order to exclude your spouse from the marital home.

Disclaimer: This article is provided as general information, not legal advice, and may not reflect the current laws in your state. It does not create an attorney-client relationship and is not a substitute for seeking legal counsel based on the facts of your circumstance. No reader should act based on this article without seeking legal advice from a lawyer licensed in their state.

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