How long can you be married and still get an annulment?

Are you curious about whether you’re eligible for an annulment? Here’s what you need to know.

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There are lots of misconceptions surrounding what an annulment is, and when you can get one. Some people think you may get an annulment only if you haven’t “consummated” the marriage, which at best misstates a common annulment ground. Some churches offer religious annulments, which don’t affect your legal marital status. And some think there’s an annulment time frame after which you can’t have a marriage annulled.

But there’s no time limit on when you may annul a marriage. What matters is what makes the marriage annulable and what the spouses do once they are aware of why the marriage could be annulled. This article explores the grounds for annulment, when you may get one, how to get one and what happens after.

Key takeaways:

  • You may get an annulment if your marriage is “void” or “voidable.” A void marriage was against the law when you married. A voidable marriage has a legal defect that violates the law, but you may make it valid.
  • You may annul a void marriage at any time, regardless of the length of the marriage.
  • You may annul a voidable marriage at any time unless and until you’ve validated it by continuing to live together with your spouse as a married couple after you discover the defect or after the defect ends.

When can you get an annulment?

You may get a no-fault divorce in every U.S. state. But you may get an annulment only in specific circumstances.  

What qualifies for an annulment? Generally, you may have a marriage annulled if the marriage is “void” or “voidable.” 

Pro tip: 

Some states may use different terms to describe a legal declaration that a marriage never occurred. For example, in Texas, you “annul” a voidable marriage but request a court “declare void” a legally void marriage. Ensure you know what language your state uses.

Voidable marriages

Most states allow you to annul a marriage based on an overlapping handful of grounds. A marriage may be voidable if a spouse was:

  • Under 18 at the time of the marriage 
  • Improperly induced to marry through misrepresentation, fraud, duress or force
  • Impotent at the time of the marriage
  • Unable to consent (for example, due to mental disability or intoxication)

If improperly induced to marry, the spouse requesting the annulment needs to show that they wouldn’t have married the other in different circumstances. For example, Spouse A conceals that they have several child abuse convictions. Spouse B did not know about the convictions and would not have married Spouse A if they had known. So, by concealing their criminal history, Spouse A induced Spouse B to marry them through misrepresentation and the marriage is voidable.

Generally, you may annul a voidable marriage regardless of its length—unless you validate it. 

Pro tip:

Family law is the domain of each individual state, so your state’s laws may vary from those explored above. Particularly, some states authorize additional annulment grounds. For example, California allows you to have a marriage annulled if one spouse was already married but believed their spouse to be dead. Consult your state’s specific voidability rules before proceeding. 

Validating voidable marriages

The following chart explores how you may validate a voidable marriage. If, after the events described, the couple voluntarily chooses to live together as a married couple, the marriage may no longer be annulled. 

Living together as a married couple typically, but not universally, involves a sexual relationship. It’s also essential that the spouses live together voluntarily. For example, cohabitation may not be truly voluntary if one spouse was forced to marry the other, even if the force or threat of force is no longer present.

Annulment ground — One or both spouses were…Example cases — Spouse A and Spouse BThe marriage becomes valid if Spouses A and B voluntarily live together as a married couple after…
MinorsA is 17 when she marries and moves in with B, who is 19. Both spouses are 18 or older
Induced to marry through misrepresentation or fraudA is pregnant and tells B the child is his, even though A knows it isn’t. B marries A because he believes the child is his.Spouse B discovers the misrepresentation
Induced to marry through duress or forceA is pregnant with B’s child. B’s parents threaten to harm the child if A and B don’t marry. A and B get married.The force or duress ends
IntoxicatedA and B get married on a drunken whim.Both spouses are sober and clear-headed
Not mentally able to consentB suffers a significant psychotic break, during which time A and B get married. After being hospitalized, B regains normal mental function. Spouse B becomes mentally competent

Pro tip:

Some of these grounds set a short time frame, like no longer being intoxicated. You may not discover others for years, like who a child’s biological father is. Still, the longer you’ve been married, the harder it often becomes to convince a judge you didn’t know certain facts. Despite the lack of a specific annulment time frame, judges may be more likely to annul short-term marriages for that reason.

Void marriages

In most states, void marriages fall into two categories: the spouses are too closely related or one spouse is already married to someone else. 

Spouses are typically too closely related if—through full-blood, half-blood or adoption—one spouse is the other’s:

  • Parent, grandparent or other ancestor
  • Child, grandchild or other descendant
  • Sibling
  • Stepparent or stepchild
  • Aunt, uncle, niece or nephew

The states are divided on marriages between first cousins. Many states outlaw first-cousin marriage, but nearly half don’t limit it at all. Seven states permit first-cousin marriage when the chances of the cousins having children with genetic abnormalities are reduced or eliminated. And Minnesota allows first cousins to marry only if part of “the established customs of aboriginal cultures.”

A void marriage is always annulable because the spouses were legally unable to marry in the first place.

How do you get an annulment?

Usually, you get an annulment in the same way that you get a divorce—by filing a dissolution of marriage case with your local court. When you do, you must convince the judge your marriage meets your state’s annulment requirements. 

Pro tip:

If a judge decides your marriage isn’t annullable, you may still divorce. In some states, you may request an annulment at the same time that you request a divorce. When you do, you ask the judge to first decide whether they can annul your marriage. If they conclude they can’t, you move directly to divorce—without filing a new case. If your state allows you to file this way, it may save you time and money.

What happens after you have a marriage annulled? 

So the answer to: “how long can you be married and still get an annulment?” is: it depends. So what happens after your marriage is annulled? What if you were married for many years, you share children and your lives overlap extensively?

An annulment declares that, for legal purposes, your marriage never occurred. It otherwise looks a lot like divorce. Yet, having your marriage annulled provides some unique benefits. For example, you need not report that you were previously married in some contexts, like tax returns. Or you may invalidate a prenuptial agreement. 

And some state laws authorize certain things only in divorce or annulment. For example, some states may forbid spousal support or property division as part of an annulment agreement. 

Ultimately, the longer you’re together, the messier it is to separate your lives, and the stranger it seems to declare that the marriage never happened. But as long as you meet the legal annulment requirements, you may have a marriage annulled even if you were married for 50 years.

Choosing between annulment and divorce

Depending on the circumstances, an annulment might take longer and cost more than a divorce, or it might be quicker and cost less. 

An annulment might be more efficient if:

  • You have clear evidence of reasons your marriage is void or voidable
  • Your marriage didn’t last more than a few years
  • Your spouse also wants to have the marriage annulled
  • You don’t share much property
  • Neither spouse wants spousal support

However, a divorce may be more efficient if:

  • You’ll struggle to provide evidence of reasons your marriage is void or voidable
  • Your marriage was long-term
  • Your spouse doesn’t want an annulment
  • You share a lot of property
  • One of the spouses wants spousal support

Whether you seek an annulment is a personal choice, but many who are considering an annulment benefit from the advice of a family lawyer. Your lawyer may advise you whether it’d be worthwhile to try to have your marriage annulled and help you understand your state-specific marriage laws. If you decide to pursue an annulment, your lawyer will also help you present your evidence in a way that makes it most likely a judge will conclude your marriage is void or voidable. 

Sources

 https://statutes.capitol.texas.gov/Docs/FA/htm/FA.6.htm#6.102, https://statutes.capitol.texas.gov/Docs/FA/htm/FA.6.htm#6.201

https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=FAM&sectionNum=2210.

https://www.newsweek.com/map-states-marry-cousin-tennessee-ban-1889727

 First-cousin marriage is legal in Alabama, Alaska, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Tennessee, Vermont, Virginia and Washington D.C.

These states include Arizona, Indiana, Illinois, Indiana, Maine, Utah and Wisconsin.

https://www.revisor.mn.gov/statutes/cite/517.03

https://www.leg.state.nv.us/NRS/NRS-125.html#NRS125Sec380

https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/divorce-california/annulment

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Frequently asked questions

What is the difference between an annulment and a divorce?

An annulment declares that a marriage never occurred, while a divorce ends a marriage. If your marriage is annulled, your marital status is “single.” If you get divorced, your marital status is “divorced.”

Is it better to get an annulment than a divorce?

Divorce may work better for longer-term marriages where the spouses’ lives are more intertwined. Annulment may work better for shorter-term marriages where the spouses’ lives are more separate. Yet, whether an annulment is better than a divorce depends on the marriage and each individual’s values and preferences.

Is an annulment cheaper than a divorce?

Depending on your state’s laws, how much evidence you have to support the grounds for an annulment and whether your spouse also wants an annulment, annulment may be more or less expensive than a divorce.

What are grounds for annulment?

You may get an annulment if your marriage is “void” or “voidable.” State laws vary, but marriages are typically void if one spouse is already married or between people who are related. Marriages are typically voidable if a spouse was under 18 when they married, induced the other to marry through means like fraud or force or was mentally incapable of consent.

Disclaimer: This article is provided as general information, not legal advice, and may not reflect the current laws in your state. It does not create an attorney-client relationship and is not a substitute for seeking legal counsel based on the facts of your circumstance. No reader should act based on this article without seeking legal advice from a lawyer licensed in their state.

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